#LiveRightAtNight – Date Right at Night

This week’s focus for the Live RIght at Night Campaign is how to Date Right at Night…

Alright ladies, the end of the week is upon us and it’s time to get ready for DATE NIGHT! But prepping for your date doesn’t end once you have picked out your hot curve hugging dress or fabulous killer heels… that’s just the beginning …

Tonight’s night out may be a first date or the early beginnings of your relationship with this fine young man so you may not want him to know exactly where you live. Consider meeting him at a public location instead of having him pick you up at your house. No judgment if for your first date you are meeting him at his Upper West Side apartment so he can cook you a home-cooked delicious dinner. Let’s just make a date night plan ahead of time in order to ensure your safety and fun! It’s a scary statistic but according to the U.S. Department of Justice every 2 minutes a woman is raped in the United States. And 1 in 4 women are victims of rape or attempted rape, and of those women 84% knew their attacker and 57% happened while on a date. So, please before you step out for a night of dating bliss make sure to tell, text or email at least one girlfriend where you are going and with whom. Hey, these days you can send her his FB pic or twitter handle LOL …

Being too connected to your phone and texting or taking calls is a dating no-no but it may be wise to ask a girlfriend to check in on you during your date to make sure everything is going well and you’re having fun and are safe.  Don’t go overboard and have your bestie check in on you every 15 minutes. But having her check in on you once can serve as a “temperature check” and also a get away plan. I, personally, have the added bonus of a pager that often goes off while I’m out so sometimes that also serves as my get away plan.

Speaking of get away plans, how are you getting to and from this date? Bus, train, cab, driving yourself? Make sure you always carry a little secret stash – THAT YOU DON’T SPEND – like your granny does in her bra … $20 should be enough, and can be used in a pinch for emergencies. Along the same lines make sure you charge up your cell phone in case you need to call someone you have enough juice to make and stay on a call.

Lastly, there’s nothing wrong with pre-funking at the house while you get ready for your date and having a few drinks on your evening out. But in order to have a safe and fun time know your limit. 55% of women involved in a date rape reported drinking or taking drugs before the attack happened. Sadly, some women didn’t even know they were slipped something until it was too late. So, pace yourself, don’t drink too much, never leave your drink unattended, and make sure to have water in between your cocktails. Here’s a useful app Drink Tracker at  http://www.slappme.com that helps you gauge how much alcohol you can have throughout the night so you can make it to the finish line and that goodnight kiss still looking and feeling fabulous .. because we all know sloppy is not sexy.

Wishing you a fabulous night living right!

Dr. V

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Flu Emergency Warning Signs

The flu season is upon us and according to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) and Health departments nationwide, this year’s flu season may prove to be one of the worst. According to the CDC every year 5-20% of the US population gets the flu. More than 200,000 people are hospitalized and more than 36,000 people die from the flu. Emergency rooms nationwide are being flooded with people presenting with flu symptoms. Here are some signs and symptoms that require you get IMMEDIATE MEDICAL CARE.

Children:

  • High or prolonged fever
  • Fast, rapid breathing  or trouble breathing
  • Bluish skin color
  • Confusion, seizures, irritability
  • Dehydration – not drinking enough fluids
  • Worsening of underlying medical problems : e.g. diabetes, asthma, heart problems

Adults:

  • High or prolonged fever
  • Difficulty breathing or shortness of breath
  • Pain or pressure in chest
  • Near fainting or fainting
  • Confusion, changes in consciousness
  • Severe or continued vomiting

For most healthy people flu symptoms will resolve in 3-7 days. However, If the flu-like symptoms completely resolve but then come back and now you or your loved one has a fever and/or cough again go seek medical attention.

Wishing you good health,

Dr. V

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Keeping your 2013 New Year Resolutions

What was your New Year’s resolution in 2012? Was it to purchase a new home, get a new car, or make a career change? Perhaps it was to improve your health, to eat better, or to get fit. Do you even remember? Year after year, we come up with lofty resolutions. While some of us commit to these pledges, most of us give up on our personal declarations within weeks. Admittedly, last year my resolution was to work out and tone enough to be wear leather shorts in the summer .. LOL .. Don’t ask!

Health, better nutrition, and fitness are three resolution options we often declare at the beginning of the year. However, since we are entangled with day-to-day activities spanning across our professional and personal lives, we rarely stick to a diet or find time to go to the gym religiously.

So, what was your New Year’s resolution for 2013? Was it to get your abs shredded up so you can grate cheese on them? Or maybe it was to be bathing suit ready at all times? Here are some of the top 5 Workout Resolutions I’ve overheard while doing my own 5am workouts …. and my top ways to KEEP Your New Year’s Resolutions beyond February…

Top 5 Workout Resolutions …

1)   Loose weight overall

2)   Get my glutes toned

3)   Tone my arms

4)   Get a six pack or sleek sexy belly

5)   Increase my flexibility

Top 10 Ways to Keep Your New Year’s Resolutions

1) Have a strong commitment to make a change

2) Make your goals realistic .. .SMALL steps you can manage

3) Keep track of your progress. The more monitoring and feedback, the better your outcome

4) Do the program with a partner, to increase support and your chances of success

5) Avoid making ABSOLUTE statements and setting goals based upon these: such as… I will never do X again.

6) Avoid NEGATIVE self-talk

7) Take credit in your successes, no matter how small – Reward yourself!

8) Give yourself a break! Don’t blame yourself for mistakes.

9) View setbacks as lessons for growth …explore what kept you from achieving your goal and make corrections

10) Develop coping strategies to deal with problems or STRESS that may arise

11) Remember this is a gradual process – Start low and go slow

12) Add a spiritual dimension to your goals … reach and draw strength from your faith

Most importantly ENJOY your new commitment to live healthy and happy. We’re building healthy habits for a lifetime.

Wishing you great health,

Dr. V

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Cervical Cancer Awareness Month

Did you know cervical cancer used to be the leading cause of cancer death in women in the United States? Since the development of the Pap smear by Dr. Papanicolaou (a fellow Cornellian) the number of diagnosed cases and deaths from cervical cancer has exponentially decreased. However, it has not disappeared. January is cervical cancer awareness month; so let’s get smart about cervical cancer.

1) You may not even know you have cervical cancer: Because it may not cause signs and symptoms. Advanced cervical cancer may cause bleeding or discharge from the vagina that you don’t normally experience such as after sex.

2) Cervical cancer is caused by an STD. Most cervical cancers are caused by HPV. It’s the same virus that causes genital warts. HOLD ON! Before you get worried, there are many types of HPV, more than 80 and not all of them cause cervical cancer. That’s why it’s important to have regular Pap smears because the test looks for abnormal cells in the cervix that may be cancerous or pre-cancerous. And even if your Pap test comes back abnormal – DON’T FREAK OUT – there are many reasons why the results might be abnormal. It doesn’t mean you have cancer.

3) Smoking can increase you risk of cervical cancer. Other risk factors for cervical cancer include illnesses that compromise your immune system such as HIV, using birth control bills for more than 5 years, multiple sex partners, as well as giving birth to more than three children.

4) Two screening tests can help prevent you from getting cervical cancer: The Pap test – which looks for atypical cells in the cervix and the HPV test – which looks for the virus that causes these cell changes. The most important thing you can do to help prevent cervical cancer is to have regular screening tests.

5) If you get the HPV vaccine you still need to be examined by your doctor and have regular Pap tests. Start getting Pap tests when you become sexually active or by the age of 18yrs. The CDC recommends women aged 21-65 get regular Pap tests even if you think you are too old or not having sex anymore.

No woman should die from cervical cancer, because it’s preventable and treatable. Talk to your doctor about getting regular screenings for cervical cancer with a Pap test. And if you can’t afford one you can get one for free by visiting: http://www.nccc-online.org/index.php/paptest

Wishing you great health,

Dr. V

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WORLD AIDS DAY

December 1st is World Aids Day and this year the UNAIDS theme is “Getting it to Zero” – that is “getting the number of AIDS related deaths to zero, zero new HIV infections, and zero discrimination surrounding HIV positive and AIDS status.” Currently 34 million people in the world have HIV, but almost half of those people don’t even know they have it.

In 2011 2.5 million people were newly diagnosed with HIV and 1.7 million people died from AIDS-related illnesses. Worldwide there has been a significant decrease in new HIV infections, with incredible success in decreasing the numbers of babies born with HIV. We have come a long way but can’t forget that education, prevention and safe sex practices are key to getting us to ZERO! So this year in celebration of World AIDS day, what will you do to help us get to Zero? …  Know your status, get tested!

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Winter Skin Tips

5 Winter skin tips:

Winter is HERE! The lovely suntanned J-Lo glow you lusted after and achieved this summer is gone, and now you’re thinking all you have to look forward to is wind whipped reddened cheeks, cracked lips and a runny nose. No ladies, that is not your fate, if you follow these 5 winter skin tips:

1) Don’t over exfoliate or over soak in the tub: 

The outside air is dry and over-exfoliation will not only stretch the skin causing scratches or abrasions but also cause more DRYNESS. In the winter, try to exfoliate just once a week to maintain the skin’s moisture and healthy glow. Over-exfoliation not only dehydrates the skin but also can lead to dark spots called hyperpigmentation, and skin damage. Similarly taking long hot steamy showers or baths dries out the skin. So don’t spend too much time in a long HOT HOT shower or bath. Aim to take a warm shower or bath and keep it to less than 10 minutes. When you jump out pat dry don’t scrub or rub to maintain your skin’s natural oils and moisture.

2) Try a spray tan:

You say you look skinnier and feel better with a tan, well being a tanning bed goddess dramatically increases your risk for skin cancer. If you want a year-round glow try a spray tan or self-tanning lotion. Spray tan and self-tanner are applied to the outer layers of the skin. They DON’T penetrate the deep layers of the skin or get absorbed by the body. The main ingredient in spray tans is dihydroxyacetone called DHA. The FDA has approved DHA as a tanning ingredient since 1977. It is a colorless compound with a carbohydrate (sugar) component. Make sure if it’s your first time using a spray tan or self-tanner product you test it on a small patch of your skin first to make sure you don’t have an allergy to any of the ingredients in the product AND don’t inhale the fumes (when you do get sprayed)!

3) Moisturize .. moisturize .. moisturize ..

Day and Night. This will keep your skin hydrated. Look for a product that has humectants. And when your shower instead of a harsh deodorant cleansing bar or soap try a body wash that is moisturizing. Moisturizing the skin helps replenish the natural oils the body loses through the day. Elements such as weather and pollution, medications, and even regular showers and baths can dry out our skin, and moisturizing recharges it! Even though it’s cloudy, foggy, or snowing it’s important to moisturize your face with a product that has at least SPF 15 when you are outdoors to protect yourself from the sun’s UVA and UVB rays.

4) Don’t lick your lips:

Licking your kissers dries them out and makes them crack. Normally the lips have a very thin protective layer of oil that coats and keeps them from drying. However, winter air is dry. Therefore, when you lick your lips to moisten them you actually lick off that protective oil layer; and the water in your saliva evaporates and dries out your kissers causing them to chap. Petroleum jelly products like Vasoline help prevent moisture loss but they don’t penetrate or repair chapped lips.  To truly help repair chapped lips look for lip balms with lanolin or a moisturizer.

5) Buy a humidifier:

As the temperature goes down and the heat goes up in the house the amount of moisture in the air dramatically decreases. This is the reason you may wake up in the night gasping for air, with a dry mouth and stuffy nose and kicking off the covers because it’s HOT! It is hot, and there’s no moisture in the air. The remedy – a humidifier. Put it in your bedroom and allow it to moisturize the air and your body while you sleep. Don’t turn it up too much otherwise the air will feel damp, aim for 30%-50% humidity.

Wishing you healthy glowing winter skin.

Dr. V

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